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After dating death spouse

Losing someone we love is one of the hardest things we have to face in life. But they might be about anger that the person has gone, or about resentment that other people are still a couple and can look forward to an old age together.But eventually, once we're ready, it's highly likely we'll consider the possibility of finding love again. Sometimes feelings revolve round sad or even horrible images of the last days or weeks of a partner's life.If your partner was dying for a long time, the chances are that you did loads of grieving before he or she actually stopped breathing.You are then more likely to feel ready for a new life than someone whose spouse died suddenly would be.You have to remember that no one knows exactly what you're suffering.And no one knows for sure what went on in your relationship with your dead partner.Even so, it can be helpful to use these stages as a rough guide to help you to understand sudden difficult emotions such as anger.Recognise too that these emotions are part of a process, and that most other people also feel them.

At other times, you can get a strong sense that some individuals think you are hard-hearted because you appear to have got over the death quickly. None of us should judge anyone else about how they are coping.

If that happens, try to discuss with them just how much your late partner will always be in your mind.

You might also gently suggest that he or she would not want you to grieve forever.

And the surviving spouse may well feel that he or she was not always patient or very loving when the other person was dying.

All of these emotions are quite normal to have, but that does not make them easy to deal with.

In such a situation, it's wise not to be blatant about your new love until your children are more ready to accept the idea.

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