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Because this is engrained at such an early age, this may cause some Asian men to continue withholding emotion as they grow up.

It’s rare to hear traditional Asian parents say “I love you” to their children.

For example, at the dinner table, it is a blasphemy to serve yourself food first and immediately start eating. Unfortunately, we are influenced by what we see in the media whether we are conscious of it or not.

You serve the person you are dining with first, and always offer the last bite. Most depictions of Asian males in the popular media are not the same as their Caucasian counterparts.

Theories explain that this dates back to the nature of Confucian teaching – where displaying one’s emotions publicly is not encouraged.

South Asian teenagers may feel a cultural divide separates them from their friends.

Many people interviewed had never said those three words, and one 56-year old commenting “Saying it aloud is embarrassing for me.” Of course, even in an upbringing where being emotionally expressive is not encouraged, one can still learn how to communicate feelings despite the odds. Sure, an Asian guy will think bubble tea is a perfectly acceptable venue for a first date. Asian guys will almost always say “Yes” to dessert as a date spot. It’s more common for a Caucasian male to independently pursue his desires without asking for anyone else’s approval. Although Asian guys might take awhile to confess their undying love, but that’s only because they like to take it slow.Multiple articles and studies discuss how cultural stereotypes of Asian men may make them less attractive to women of all races, including Asians. On another website, one Asian male expresses: “It’s definitely harder for an Asian male to date a white female than for Asian females to date white males.In the book Freakonomics, one study showed that single Asians (male) had to make 7,000 more annually to receive the same response rate as White men on online dating sites. Asian males are not portrayed as masculine, whereas Asian females are stereotyped as submissive, exotic.” What gives?!Many South Asian parents place a strong emphasis on education, and teenagers can have trouble understanding the pressure to exceed typical expectations."Sometimes, a friend doesn't understand that I have to spend the night studying for a test rather than hanging out and having a good time," said one South Asian teen."I have had a friend get angry at me for canceling plans, or more often at my parents, which is a sticky situation to get in to."Sometimes, it is difficult to help a friend from a completely different background understand where parents are coming from, but a good friend will listen, and try to understand.

It's been four years since then and we're still going strong; he eats chicken feet and sea cucumber (yuck) and is a chef (lots of brownie points there), is trying to learn Fu Chou and Mandarin, and is about to come on a trip with me and my parents to visit my Grandma (that'll be interesting).

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