Being good looking intimidating
What if you become intimidated by individuals or groups who are attractive and/or loud.
A lot of things are part of who you are: Mini exercise: What are some things you are good at?It’s important to know about this because a) it helps us understand that it’s not about us, it’s about them.This insight helps us to not take their intimidation personally and b) it helps us understand that their “perfect surface” more often than not is a protection for their low self-esteem. It can be stressful to be around intimidating people and feel that being inferior will make them dislike us.After all, you can’t remove feelings and most people get intimidated every once in awhile, so why not be okay with it?Lesson learned: Whenever you’re around someone who intimidates you, think: “Now I’m intimidated, and that’s OK.” Then you can move forward to face (and conquer) your fears instead of fighting your own feelings.
First of all, here are two changes in mindset we need to understand: Few walk around in life trying to intimidate others.