Dating very attractive men
If that woman lives in a large city, that is also a home to many attractive, professional men, these choices might be very many or even overwhelming to women.As a result, such a woman’s behavior when it comes to selecting men is likely to be very similar to the behavior of all of us as consumers when shopping for something that comes in many kinds and shapes and that can be found in dozens or more stores.In other words, you are narrowing down your choices by eliminating the products that you know you don’t want to make it easier on you.Then, after you limited yoruself to a managable number of choices, you will start looking at every remaining product more carefully and you will be reading the reivews.
If they have more choices than they can handle when it comes to guys, they first try to dismiss some of the men by looking instinctively for deal breakers in every guy to eliminate him and make th choice easier. This means that the small things matter in the very beginning of your interactions with a woman you just met.
Do you think that that’s what she is going to hear? She will likely assume that you just want to date around and that you are definitely not interested in anything serious, even though you never actually said that or even hinted at something like that.
The above are just two very common examples of how women misinterpret what you say.
So, as a masculine gay man, let me describe what I find attractive in a masculine gay man: Masculine characteristics vary, just as people vary.
Some guys have more observable physical characteristics of “maleness” than others.
You might have meant that you were just happy to be on your own and maybe you managed to catch up on things you like to do that you weren’t able to do when you were in a relationship, but she might and will likely assume that the reason you said that you enjoye being single is because you are a player and you were actually messing around with different women this whole time, and that’s why you were not interested in having a relationship this whole time.