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Have your husband schedule a family meeting, which will include him, the children, and you.Express to him in advance to proactively support you. During the meeting, tell your step-children that you’re glad that they have a bio mom and that you have no intent to replace her or abandon them.Your stepchildren feel rejected when excluded from your plans.They don’t remember their bio-parents going on date nights.
They have to deal with their mother’s venom, their father shirking responsibility, and discomfort caused by accommodating you as you enter their lives.They think you are trying to take dad away from them, and that you don’t like them.Bio-parent having regular time alone with bio-children helps solidify their relationship.If you think that they’re up to no good, tell your husband in private, and leave further investigation to him. You may have expressed disgust at her irresponsible attitude, selfishness, or mood swings.Maybe you recommended monitored visits, because she can’t be trusted.
That understanding paired with solid communication skills and honesty will help you and your spouse succeed as a couple and a family.