Question to ask while dating
When you’re getting serious about someone, don't ask: “Are we in love?
We tend to be afraid to share what we feel because expressing it makes us vulnerable; it’s dangerous.
As Shaya Ostrov says in his book, The Inner Circle,"I’m watching you, hearing you, paying attention to you.
I’ve put it all together and have arrived at the conclusion that you and your life mean something to me." That’s why the essence of real love is friendship In a Jewish wedding ceremony, the bride and groom are given seven blessings.
When there is a disagreement of any kind, small or large, this is when you find out how good or how bad your communication is.
The essence of good communication is that you can consistently reach win-win solutions to your problems and disagreements. The communication about the problem is the problem. One of the most important principles of marriage is: If it’s important to you, it’s important to me. Do you make jokes about the other person in front of others and then try to cover it by saying, “I was only joking”?
” “Being in love” often means infatuation, romance, and high chemistry – things that are essentially selfish.