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Unofficial guide to dating again

If you're recovering from this situation, the prospect of bonding with someone new may seem insurmountable because you're faced with the possibility of going through the searing pain of loss, or the terrible ordeal of watching your beloved die while you stand by helpless, all over again.

Once you've suffered problems, pain and loss like this, it takes great courage to begin all over again.

In effect, there's a "technology of dating" that works, and you can learn it here. It was only normal when you were 13 to feel inadequate and insecure about dating, but at least then everyone else you knew had similar trepidations.

And no one expected you to know the ropes already, anyway. Not only is dating something you haven't practiced for a while (or maybe a very long time), but much more is expected of an adult in today's world.

It may happen in the movies, but it's just plain impossible in real life.

Sometimes, in fact, we do get a glimpse of their "ordinary" side in the tabloids: grubby clothes, wild hair, looking more like we do.At first sight you just don't know enough about the other person to be able to declare your interest and expect that extended, pleasant, one-on-one contact will result.There have to be better ways to accomplish meeting and getting to know people.The few attempts you have actually made-blind dates set up by friends, meeting someone in a bar, attending a singles event, or seeing your ex again- have all been awkward at best, awful at worst. They are created by society's prevalent fantasy about dating: You and some person you don't know will meet, make an instant and 100% accurate evaluation of each other, decide to go out, and spend an evening together falling in love.With expectations like that, you're bound to feel intimidated.

In your own mind, you've got to compete with examples set by movie stars, models, and smooth characters in TV sitcoms who usually wind up with a date in the end.

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